This is the first time that I have publicly written and expressed my views on homosexuality. Please respect my views and opinions even if they don’t reflect your values.
I have spent many years studying and researching this subject, mainly because I am always fascinated by human behavior and why we do, think and feel certain things. Our views/beliefs can be molded by parents, by our own choices and education, or it can be molded easily by others to convince us that their explanations should be our beliefs. I believe, after all these years that homosexuality is not a natural state of being. That said, I don’t care what people do with their lives or bodies as long as it doesn’t affect mine.
The US Supreme Court ruling actually surprised me. I viewed these old geezer judges as a conservative bunch, trying to appease and balance the greater opinion. Personally, I do have opinions on why people choose to be gay or lesbian. This post is not about that, it’s about why society and this segment (homosexual) of the population is making this such a big deal and insisting/forcing “awareness”down my throat.
In order to get married in most Western, modern society countries, a couple must obtain permission to get married by filling out paperwork and obtaining a “Marriage License”. You then become a Licensed Marital Institution that has certain “privileges”, like lower taxes, joint medical insurance coverage, etc.
You can adopt the “males” last name as your new family name. Some exchange rings as a symbol of love and marriage.
It is my understanding that homosexuals want those same privileges? All those parades, gay rights activism, change in education programs to include homosexuality, all because a group of people that do not live a natural way want me, my kids, my grandkids to accept their homosexuality as being normal?
Why do I need to accept it? Do you see Swingers organizing huge Swinger Pride Parades and openly sharing partners? Do you see normal, healthy, natural couples organizing huge Pride Natural Couple parades to bring about awareness? We should because we have lost those values about family, mother and father raising children.
Why is it necessary that we all become aware and accepting of their plight? It’s their fight not mine.
This issue will never be balanced and never be accepted by everyone throughout the world. Each one of us were born into different cultures, different religious beliefs, different parental programming; therefore we have to ask why this is being pushed down our throats?
I know there are several reasons for this agenda, but it would be speculation therefore, I am not going to even attempt to guess why, but most certainly it has to do with the destruction of the traditional family and it’s values. Most likely it is to warp our perceptions of what is normal and healthy, natural or not. Could the agenda be to encourage homosexuality to decrease the birth of children?
Whatever the reason, I am not going to sit here and lie to you for the sake of not disturbing the peace or for fear of not being politically correct by saying that I do not accept all forms of homosexuality as normal or natural.
Yes, there are children born with defective or unbalanced hormones that are severe enough to question their gender, but I’m not talking about this group. I’m talking about adults that have made choices to be homosexual. I respect their choices and decisions to have sex with a same sex partner, fine, but please stop trying to program me into accepting your choices.
I don’t have to accept it. I don’t have to like it. I don’t have to even respect it. So long as I don’t cause any harm or say anything derogatory to those, I don’t see why I have to accept it. Children should not be taught homosexuality in schools. That is the responsibility of the parents, unless, parents specifically ask to have their children educated. That should be a choice as well for parents. They removed God from the classroom because not all students were religious. Fine. But it’s alright to add homosexuality despite the fact that some students ARE religious. Do they not have the same rights? We can remove God from the classroom because not all are religious but we can’t remove homosexuality because not all are religious? Is it not the biggest different in opinion between the religious and non-religious?
As for gays and lesbians; what rights do they think they will get? They too must apply for a “marriage license, ask permission to get married.
Marriage is not a right, marriage is a privilege because we have to apply and ask for permission in form of a “license”. The same goes for driving, we can’t travel without a drivers “License”. We can’t build a home on our own property without a “builders permit”.
There are no rights in this Matrix, there are only privileges that we have to apply for and wait for them to be granted to us.
I do have comments on gays and lesbians, it’s my right to speak what I feel like without insulting or hurting anyone. I don’t consider a homosexual relationship to be natural. I find it offensive to watch two men or two women kissing in public. Yes, for me it’s offensive and do I not have the right to walk around in public without being offended? Smoking in public is not allowed in most cities, why is homosexuality publicly being allowed in public given it’s a hot issue and not everyone is ok with it?
Look, if you are gay or lesbian, that’s your choice, but stop shoving this “acceptance” and “awareness” down my throat. I don’t want to accept and I don’t want my kids to be aware of it. Yes, they know what homosexuality is. yes, they know that Aids and other diseases are NOT a homosexual issue. Yes, they know that it’s a choice and it’s not natural. If they want to further learn more or even become one of them that is their choice. But as a parent, I have done my job in educating them. It is within my rights as a parent to shape their opinions as well, once they become adults they can shape their own. I will teach my kids values and if my kids don’t accept homosexuality, is it not their right to do so? What does Education have to do with teaching my kids moral values? Is it not the responsibility of their parents? Since when did parents give up their rights to the STATE?
I will not pretend I am ok with it. I am not ok with it being shoved down my throat. I am not ok with this movement of constantly whining they want the same rights. Nobody has any rights, and those privileges were set up and designed to suit the natural and normal man- woman relationship. Get over it. You want to be different, but you want the same rights?
You can’t have the same rights because your marital relationship is NOT the same. You are asking for equality when your relationship is being sold to me as being of equal rights. Men and women are not equal in terms of their body, brain, hormones, muscle strength etc. We can only be equal in respect, being paid equally, being treated equally etc.The Gay and Lesbian community are insisting they have equal rights. How can they ask for equal rights when they will be bringing up their children with same sex parents? This is another issue that I am not going to get into. Let’s just assume that every child in a gay lesbian family will be loved, nurtured and taken care of. It is the core values and how this child will grow up unbalanced that concerns me. We are too early into this generation to see what the results are for children growing up in same sex marriages, but it’s yet to be determined.
Remember, none of us have any rights. We must ask for permission for everything, therefore, they are merely privileges given upon completing certain conditions and requirements. These are not rights. Your right to marry or drive should not be conditioned upon a piece of paper. We pay for these privileges, they are not free. If you want to be different, you don’t have the right to ask for equality.
I am sick and tired of pretending I’m ok with this. I’m not. I’m sick and tired of being treated like an idiot as if I am old fashioned just because I don’t accept homosexuality as normal. It’s not normal or natural because if it was, we would have been living like that for millions of years. Stop pretending you’re ok with it if you’re not. Stop trying to appease the politically correct group. Speak out. I know many of you don’t share the same views or values as I do, and that’s ok. I’m not here to convince you of anything. I am here only to share my thoughts and opinions without fear of what someone else might think about me.
Homosexuality is not part of our evolutionary process. It has never been seen as being normal going back thousands of years. It is not natural, if it was designed that way then we would all be created differently. There is not one cellular structure equal between males and females. It is not natural. We are not designed this way. Evolution didn’t transform us into homosexual beings. These are choices made by individuals for whatever reasons they choose and that is their right and choice, but please stop shoving this down my throat to accept your choices. You want equal rights, sue for it and deal with the courts but leave us alone. We all have the right to believe in what we want. There is no right or wrong here. I simply find it offensive and UN-natural to see two people of same sex being in love and intimate. I question it’s foundational purpose and also recognize that there are exceptions as well.
Why are people afraid to voice their opinions? Why can’t people be honest and tell people the truth? I know many people that will whisper in my ear what they really feel, but when speaking in general public,they will all say ” I respect their choices”. Sure, we all respect their choices, but do you feel it’s normal or natural? Do you feel that THEY have to dance around, engage in naked gay pride parades? What is their point? We all know they are gay and we all know they have chosen that lifestyle, but why are they pushing it, why are they creating such pomp about their choices? Be proud of what you are, but please, stop demanding that I accept it. I DO NOT.